There's no eternal happiness in any of worldly matters. Get married and start compromising. There are ups and downs, that's life. Hold up to your deen, always ask Allah for guidance and add the element of success (means Quran) in your life. There's not any easy answer to your question. Remember one very important thing; if you are in a haram relationship, like having a girlfriend or boyfriend, then remember that you can't ask for Allah's help into those matters, because He doesn't support the haram. That's the reason why most of such relationships don't end well. The relations whose base is immoral and forbidden, can't grow at all. Hence add the elements of purity and moralistic values in your relations. May Allah guide and help us all. Ameen.
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Society is making me mean, #AhmedMac
Day by day I'm going away from my religion, my culture. Society is brainwashing me to be mean and live like others. I struggled for years to live like how a muslim should, but eventually when I reached the verge of destruction, I had to learn to bow my head according to the circumstances. Now I feel bad that I'm becoming more like others, I have started thinking like others, my compassion for others is going away from me. I think it's not in my hands, everything that happens is by the permission of Allah, I have tasted faith and I can say that it was the most beautiful taste I ever had. Maybe I don't deserve it, maybe I'm not yet ready to have such a beautiful thing in my life. Maybe my God isn't happy from me.
Today when I hear about rape incidents, I don't feel that sad anymore, I used to feel their pain once. But now I'm becoming a person like everyone else who just cares for himself. I hate rape culture, I have a great sympathy with such victims, I'm your brother, I'm your friend, no one may pray for you but I shall always. I can't forget what my religion taught me, I won't be a human unless I have the feelings of a human. Humanity is the thing that makes someone a human. I am not saying this to impress anyone, some people who know me from years do know it too, that I had a great desire of giving shelter and love to the victims of war and rape, they're my brothers and sisters, that's what my religion taught me. I wanted to marry 4 of them and motivate people to marry them too. I thought it to be possible. I thought that I'll be strong enough to stand against society, I thought that I'll have much assets to do good at every level possible. But now it seems impossible to me, it seems imaginary.
I had faith that the people who do good get the capability to complete their missions and win against evil, but I was wrong, this world is not an easy game, you can't just devise a simple formula of life. The people who do good are tested the most in this world. I used to be an optimist, I used to imagine a perfect world, I still do. But my spirits have gone rogue, I'm a pessimist now. Still Insha-Allah, if I got the chance to do good at any level, then I shall. May God help me fulfill my promise. I'm a sinner too, not a pious person, I was heading towards that, but I'm getting lost. May Allah forgive, help and guide us all (ameen).
The things that are happening in this world..
The things that are happening in this world like in Syria can't be justified by any mean, but then this thought came in my mind that when Muslims forget the values of Islam then this thing happens (as written in Quran). Maybe that is the reason of destruction of the Muslim nations nowadays, they have forgotten their culture and religion very profoundly.
But still there are innocents everywhere, the Quran says something and my consciousness says something else, total contradiction of emotions and thoughts. I find no way to justify their condition, why are they suffering and no help is coming to them, I can't understand. Allah says in Quran that when believers forget their God then Allah forgets them, so He brings another nation over them who is more cruel and strict. I really feel the pain of the people who are suffering, and the worst feeling I have afterwards is that I'm unable to do anything to save them. More and more people are becoming the victim every moment, I can't stop this loop of suffering and torture.
Posting on social media, joining public rallies, boycotting products etc, all of this is of no value or influence to today's government system, so if you think that such easy steps are going to help anyone then you are wrong. I was also wondering that countries like Bahrain, Kuwait, Pakistan and Saudi Arabia are into forgetting and demolishing their religious roots, I fear the same thing for them. Oh Muslim Ummah! Open your eyes, save yourselves while you still can, don't make Allah angry for His rage is totally tormenting in all ways, forget the past and start saving your culture, maybe it could save you from extinction, remember that God is merciful but He is also the great punisher. May Allah forgive me if I said something that displeased Him.
But still there are innocents everywhere, the Quran says something and my consciousness says something else, total contradiction of emotions and thoughts. I find no way to justify their condition, why are they suffering and no help is coming to them, I can't understand. Allah says in Quran that when believers forget their God then Allah forgets them, so He brings another nation over them who is more cruel and strict. I really feel the pain of the people who are suffering, and the worst feeling I have afterwards is that I'm unable to do anything to save them. More and more people are becoming the victim every moment, I can't stop this loop of suffering and torture.
Posting on social media, joining public rallies, boycotting products etc, all of this is of no value or influence to today's government system, so if you think that such easy steps are going to help anyone then you are wrong. I was also wondering that countries like Bahrain, Kuwait, Pakistan and Saudi Arabia are into forgetting and demolishing their religious roots, I fear the same thing for them. Oh Muslim Ummah! Open your eyes, save yourselves while you still can, don't make Allah angry for His rage is totally tormenting in all ways, forget the past and start saving your culture, maybe it could save you from extinction, remember that God is merciful but He is also the great punisher. May Allah forgive me if I said something that displeased Him.
Do you care about other people?
Do you think about the hunger in this world while eating? Do you think about the pain in this world while enjoying? Do you think about the fear in this world while sleeping?
There's so much injustice in this world. So many people are crying for help. Ya Allah! Please help them, and make them feel comfortable with your blessings, because humans are without humanity now and you are the only one who feels their pain and burdens.
There's so much injustice in this world. So many people are crying for help. Ya Allah! Please help them, and make them feel comfortable with your blessings, because humans are without humanity now and you are the only one who feels their pain and burdens.
Should we strive to change the world?
The truth is that the world is going to become more worse, you can't stop it or make it better, you can just make yourself and the people around you (like your family) better, but not the entire world. We should always aim for the possible things. Overconfidence and optimism can lead to temptation and the imagination of victories which are certainly impossible to get.
Can we all live in peace in this world?
Sometimes I wonder if we could all live in peace. But then I remember the reason behind this life, the time we spend here. It's a test, so obviously it's going to be full of trials and stress. I won't talk about something imaginary, so let's be real and understand that no matter how hard we try to avoid problems or be successful in every corner of life, we won't be able to do that, don't believe in a myth of hope because this is the reality, it's written in Quran many times, even you can think about that and the answer will meet the same point. So learn to live with the present conditions, hope for the betterment too, but don't expect life to be perfect for you, it won't be for anyone even if they're rich or own nations. Honestly, life is like that. Salam and Peace.
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