Is it not wrong to fall for someone while still being married?

So people nowadays say that it's not wrong if you're married and you generate feelings for someone other than your spouse. They say it's natural and everyone does that. So lame!

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Yes it's the nature of a human to get attracted towards the opposite gender, but like I said before in one of my posts; we are always tested by being asked to act against our nature. When you're married, you must be devoted to your spouse. Someone's action or personality may melt your heart and make you think about him/her in an indecent manner, but let Iblees/Shetaan not win. Brother or sister zone the person, say Tauba and recite Tauz, it's Iblees who wants you to think about someone else while you're married already.

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Nikkah is a halal seal of love, it's a contract between two persons. When you're intentionally loving someone from inside, then it's same as cheating on your spouse. It's not just sinful but also immoral for any gender to do that. There's no term like modern or moderate Islam, Islam always stays the same. Any real person will accept the fact that making crushes is totally inappropriate. May Allah guide us all and help us think positively. Ameen. Mend your hearts before it's too late.

Why are there people with less blessings in their lives?

I could get myself more involved in this life, society, personal development and progress in living. But my consciousness always acts as a constraint on doing it, it stops me from being selfish and just think about myself and not of others. I see people struggling outside, people who work day and night to feed their children, people who serve us at our tables and wash our floors, do we think we are better than them? Can I or you not be in their position?

Why did it has to be their fate? Some of them even work hard than office boys. There are even beggars and homeless people, they sit on the road blocks and corners waiting for someone to come and charity them, they look at the luxurious cars passing by, they look at the hotels and people who eat there. Some of them work around the clock and earn just that money which we spend in the purchase of junk food on daily basis. Can you imagine yourself knocking at every car window and begging for food and money? What's the feeling of it?

They must be enduring a pain, a sorrow of life, that why was their fate not like ours. I am just a normal human who can't help any of them, I even feel shame while even thinking of giving them a charity, I can't even look at them because it makes me do cry inside. There was a time when I didn't know if I'd end up as a beggar on the street or a businessman on a chair, only then I felt how hard is it to live by knowing that you've no future and no support from anyone, all of my friends and everyone I knew turned their face away from me like they never knew me. Time has changed, new hopes have arrived, some support has come, but still things can change any moment.

I offer procrastination in life, I don't have the element of hardwork in me, so do I really deserve this life? What about them? Why can't I stop thinking? Being a sad soul is in my fate. I am not superior than any of them, I'm not inferior than any of them, they're not less of a human, they have equal rights just as a person in a Lamborghini car, they are humans and you can't humiliate them just because they are poor and got no name in society, I pray for their ease and access in this life, and I pray that they get to feel the poverty those who treat a human lesser than he should be treated. My words can't describe the grief I hold in my heart and thoughts for them, I have no power to change things, I am living in the same survival land and don't know if I'll rise or fall, I'm just a normal citizen of this world who has ambitions but not enough structure to support the high choice. May Allah help them and add the element of humanity in us, they are humans too. Respect.

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Why does a guy admire you on internet?

Here on social media sites, if any boy admires you then it's because of lust, he wants to play with your soul and life, better to not let anyone do that, better to become a secret and pay less heed to that interaction (A piece of advice to all those whose lives aren't yet destroyed).

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Can we all live in peace in this world?

Sometimes I wonder if we could all live in peace. But then I remember the reason behind this life, the time we spend here. It's a test, so obviously it's going to be full of trials and stress. I won't talk about something imaginary, so let's be real and understand that no matter how hard we try to avoid problems or be successful in every corner of life, we won't be able to do that, don't believe in a myth of hope because this is the reality, it's written in Quran many times, even you can think about that and the answer will meet the same point. So learn to live with the present conditions, hope for the betterment too, but don't expect life to be perfect for you, it won't be for anyone even if they're rich or own nations. Honestly, life is like that. Salam and Peace.