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Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

What should we say when a na-mehram confesses his/her love or says that he/she loves us? What should be our response?

Everyone has different ways and strategies to tackle with any situation, but let me share with you how would I deal in such cases. We humans are weak, physically and emotionally, it's the truth. When someone would say, online or face-to-face, "I love you", then I would turn her proposal down, unless it's guaranteed by her family's will. Surely it'd break her heart, but it's good to be sad than to be bad. I would then tell her that these things are not right at all, I would guide her and tell her that she's not degraded in any way by what she did and that her words will be told to no one and taken to the ground with me. Everyone should do the same, no matter the gender. When we're at the extreme, sad or fully happy, it's the best time for our soul to embrace some change. That's the absolute right time for us to adapt good.

It's the responsibility of the rich to help the poor, the literate to teach the illiterate, the mature to guide the immature. Let's recognize our responsibilities and do the small things which can play a big role in the development of a peaceful and progressive society. Let's start from around. Let's live and at the same time help others live. Let's share and be together. Whatever I say is based on total reality and not even a glimpse of imagination is added to it. My responsibility is to offer you my time, spirituality, knowledge and capabilities. The rest is onto you all. Salam and Peace. 

Scenarios of love for a Muslim

There should be one of the two scenarios in a muslim's life. Either he/she should be married, or he/she should be single. There's no in between option available for a muslim. Modernity has discovered "engagement" system, but that also comes with the consent of the two families. But even while engaged, a muslim can't get involved into things that a married muslim can. One must not forget!

Falling in love is not a perfect life

Our youth believes that falling in love or being married is the best thing they might ever have and that it will add a source of permanent joy and satisfaction in their lives. They're wrong. It's the nature of a human to never be satisfied and always ask for more. As soon as you get something you'd been asking for a long time, it becomes boring and of low value to you. Every blessing is a test, it brings more responsibilities along with it. I desire it myself to fall in love and have a good spouse, but it's fictional, marriage is a name of responsibility. May Allah help us all to grow up and learn how to live. Let's not deceive ourselves 🙂

Everything fades away, sooner or later

The affection and love by others will fade away no matter how rich, beautiful or intelligent you are. Don't take anything for granted, neither someone's love nor attention. Believe me you don't actually deserve what you have. You should be thankful all the time to Allah for blessing you all these things. Life is temporary and things can be taken away from you any moment, so learn to appreciate who's there for you, learn to see the sacrifices someone makes for you, they're not going to live and stay with you forever, learn their value, it may not always keep them in your life but maybe they'll stay a little more longer. Don't be rude when the fate is playing a positive role and is being nice in time, things will change soon.

Is there any peace or satisfaction in this world?

A part of me wishes to have a good life partner, but another part of me wants to live and die alone. There's no eternal peace in this world, now you have it and the next second it's gone. There's no peace without losses, you can't stay happy or content with life always, you will always lack of something (love, peace, justice).

Whenever a war is fought and lands are captured, men are slaughtered or enslaved, while women are captured and played like an object, that's the most inhumane action. In this era, maybe women in some civilized societys are more secure than they were in the past, but still there's injustice and barbaric actions taking place, if we don't suffer then it doesn't mean that it doesn't happen, people are going through it, even right now!

I don't want my God to punish someone I love for my mistakes, the mistakes I made, and the mistakes that I'll make. Indeed Allah isn't our enemy, He is our creator, He loves us, we are our own cruel enemy, but I fear that what if I may not be able to pass a trial? I fear it's results on my family, on my belief and everything. Even innocents get raped and so many other things, I don't want to be in that position. I don't want to be the father, husband or brother of someone who lost her dignity, I won't be able to live, I won't be able to see or feel her pain, I won't be able to .... I fear.

May Allah protect us all, all humans of every religion, because it's against the moral of humanity to be such vicious with anyone no matter what's the religion. Islam tells us to show humanity to all people, therefore we must care for all victims of life. Ya Allah protect us!

I have a question for you, for all the men (please show this post to your male family members). Will you marry a rape victim when the whole society torments her? If not then why not? You may have sisters, daughters and mother too, they could be a victim if God wanted, so would you care for them then? Your answer will prove if you've any humanity left.

If someone treats you well

If someone treated you properly and with kindness, even if he was poor, unhealthy, miserable, stressed or not of your league, but still you rejected or ignored his efforts, then you are a big time loser, because you lost something that is rare and not gotten twice in life. Don't take anyone's loyalty or care for granted.