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Showing posts with label Hard. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hard. Show all posts

Is there any peace or satisfaction in this world?

A part of me wishes to have a good life partner, but another part of me wants to live and die alone. There's no eternal peace in this world, now you have it and the next second it's gone. There's no peace without losses, you can't stay happy or content with life always, you will always lack of something (love, peace, justice).

Whenever a war is fought and lands are captured, men are slaughtered or enslaved, while women are captured and played like an object, that's the most inhumane action. In this era, maybe women in some civilized societys are more secure than they were in the past, but still there's injustice and barbaric actions taking place, if we don't suffer then it doesn't mean that it doesn't happen, people are going through it, even right now!

I don't want my God to punish someone I love for my mistakes, the mistakes I made, and the mistakes that I'll make. Indeed Allah isn't our enemy, He is our creator, He loves us, we are our own cruel enemy, but I fear that what if I may not be able to pass a trial? I fear it's results on my family, on my belief and everything. Even innocents get raped and so many other things, I don't want to be in that position. I don't want to be the father, husband or brother of someone who lost her dignity, I won't be able to live, I won't be able to see or feel her pain, I won't be able to .... I fear.

May Allah protect us all, all humans of every religion, because it's against the moral of humanity to be such vicious with anyone no matter what's the religion. Islam tells us to show humanity to all people, therefore we must care for all victims of life. Ya Allah protect us!

I have a question for you, for all the men (please show this post to your male family members). Will you marry a rape victim when the whole society torments her? If not then why not? You may have sisters, daughters and mother too, they could be a victim if God wanted, so would you care for them then? Your answer will prove if you've any humanity left.

Don't give your children too much

Don't give your children too much, don't provide them everything they ask for, they need to learn the formulas of life, they need to understand that you can't get whatever you want in your life, they need to be dealt in strict ways and matters, they need to understand that life is hard. These are some things that parents hesitate to teach their children, they think that it's the time of joy and no strictness, but actually this is the right time to teach them, otherwise when they grow up in soft and comfortable environments thinking that life is going to be full of happiness and pleasures, they fall on the very first steps, it takes a lot of them to learn the reality, but manys don't make up like others, manys don't rise or adopt like others, not everyone is that much powerful.

So, you may give your children the good time of their life, but remember that without hardness they won't be learning the real way to live and move forward; that's survival. Also, if you give your children a lot, then remember to tell them that they don't deserve any of it, invoke humility and a sense of gratitude in them, tell them to be thankful to their God for such blessings, for anything can be taken away in any glimpse of moment. Save them from being ruined, save them from getting destroyed.