Don't give your children too much, don't provide them everything they ask for, they need to learn the formulas of life, they need to understand that you can't get whatever you want in your life, they need to be dealt in strict ways and matters, they need to understand that life is hard. These are some things that parents hesitate to teach their children, they think that it's the time of joy and no strictness, but actually this is the right time to teach them, otherwise when they grow up in soft and comfortable environments thinking that life is going to be full of happiness and pleasures, they fall on the very first steps, it takes a lot of them to learn the reality, but manys don't make up like others, manys don't rise or adopt like others, not everyone is that much powerful.
So, you may give your children the good time of their life, but remember that without hardness they won't be learning the real way to live and move forward; that's survival. Also, if you give your children a lot, then remember to tell them that they don't deserve any of it, invoke humility and a sense of gratitude in them, tell them to be thankful to their God for such blessings, for anything can be taken away in any glimpse of moment. Save them from being ruined, save them from getting destroyed.
So, you may give your children the good time of their life, but remember that without hardness they won't be learning the real way to live and move forward; that's survival. Also, if you give your children a lot, then remember to tell them that they don't deserve any of it, invoke humility and a sense of gratitude in them, tell them to be thankful to their God for such blessings, for anything can be taken away in any glimpse of moment. Save them from being ruined, save them from getting destroyed.
