A piece of advice to every future parent

A piece of advice to all parents and everyone who is going to be a father/mother one day: keep your daughters in a restricted manner and environment, keep them away from all the harm, tell them what's wrong and what's right, tell them the value of respect in society, spy on them, see what are their activities and who do they spend time with, check their cell phones and other devices in a friendly manner, be frank with them and make them share their every secret with you.

The world is so cruel, they should know that, any guy can start destroying your daughter's life and she would be innocent enough to let him continue, it's better to educate your daughters at young age. Save your dignity and of your daughter, keep her in detention mode unless she gets adult and mature enough to understand these things. This is a necessary element for saving your daughter's morals, spirits and life. Let's help each other improve!

Men's eyes are filled with lust

Every men's eyes are filled with lust these days. When you go outside, with family or alone, guys start staring at you, means women. I find this totally cheap and annoying. Do these people not have any etiquettes? I really want to slap them hard in the public. I wrote about it before in an old post, but I'm writing this again because many people reading it do it too, this is totally vulgar, stop doing it. If you see someone doing it, harass them, make them feel bad and low, this is the only solution.

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Men look for weak prey always

Sinful and bad men are always upto finding weak preys, wimpy women, who can be captured and brainwashed easily. They use the tactics of frankness, friendship, compliments, gifts etc to settle the understanding that the guy is pure and cares for the girl. Quran says that our hearts are made weak, it also says that women are weak as compared to men, it's not to degrade their position, it's just the nature of women, it's how they are created, they have weak hearts and thus they become the victim.

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Therefore it is our duty to warn and keep an eye on our women, they can make mistakes by thinking they are right, not everyone has knowledge or maturity in every case or scenario. Don't let anyone manipulate the dignity of your home, they are black gems, hence they should be kept in a precious manner of safety and secrecy, they need to be educated about how to fight against this cruel world, they need to know how men think and what do they wish for, it's a necessity of a woman to know all these things to survive in this modern society that's full of evil.

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These same men who think wrong about women have daughters and mothers in their home, yet they target the sisters and daughters of other people, this society just cares for itself, it's full of apathetic individuals. May Allah save everyone from being a victim of any kind, natural crisis is from God, but injustice and such vulgar things just come from animals who call themselves human. There's so much evil in this world, it destroys many lives everyday. Ya Allah! Show us your mercy.

Women who use themselves as bait to get attention

Some women use their beauty and appearance as a bait to get attention, likes and follows. They use themselves in a degraded manner by provoking bad men's lust so they stalk and circle around them. Are they not the ones who defame and dishonor women? Where are feminists now? When a woman shows her body or figure to get attention or earn fame, even online, then is she not defaming the whole gender? Internet, showbiz and media is full of such women, and because of these women the men think wrong about every women, these kinda women have equal part in destroying and demoralizing the culture, we can judge, we shall judge, they are sinners, they are wrong, we can say this, we shall say this. They know the fact that a vulgar guy will be attracted to them, hence they pose and post such immoral pictures and do other nasty stuff for getting attention. Think about it, think!

Why does a guy admire you on internet?

Here on social media sites, if any boy admires you then it's because of lust, he wants to play with your soul and life, better to not let anyone do that, better to become a secret and pay less heed to that interaction (A piece of advice to all those whose lives aren't yet destroyed).

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Are women allowed to be liberal in Islam?

I'm not against the working and earning of women, I'm not against their right to go outside alone. The real thing is that a man is afraid to tell or show, it's something not everyone can understand, that we fear. I don't fear women or that if they get to be independent then they will become superior than me, I don't care about that. I fear society, I fear that they will lose the culture completely when they'll start thinking like no one has a right to tell them what to do, the same thing happened in the west, and now we all can see what's the respect of a woman in there. And this is not all, I think women deserve respect, actually every good soul does, I think that it's not their duty to earn for the family, it's onto men actually, that's why I would never want my spouse to work for me, I would want to work myself and provide her everything at her disposal. Most of the people reading this won't be able to understand my point, but actually many men think alike me, that's why they oppose women from earning, it's probably not in a man's nature to express his feelings, specially those related to fear, but they show care even when no one understands it.

The most important cause of why I don't want women to work or earn and why I fear society is because it's full of filth and dirt, I would never want her to be hurt by someone, I know men, I know many wrong things happen outside, no father takes a risk for his child no matter how skillful or strong the child is, it doesn't mean that he doesn't trust his child, it means that a father doesn't trust the circumstances, the world. Women are precious, they need to be dealt in care and with love, there are bad factors in this deluded world, that's the reason why I would never want a woman to work. I wish I could explain myself further on this. You can't argue and settle down with an immature mind, so it's better sometimes to force them to do it while you know of their betterment in it, they may learn it with time, even if they don't, even if they hate you, Allah knows your intentions. I am not sure about other men, but I care for your Akhirah, I feel it as my duty to warn and inform you, of course I don't have an authority over you, thus I can't force you, the final decision is yours. But whatever you intend to do, think before acting!

Equal rights for women (Article)

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