Are women allowed to be liberal in Islam?

I'm not against the working and earning of women, I'm not against their right to go outside alone. The real thing is that a man is afraid to tell or show, it's something not everyone can understand, that we fear. I don't fear women or that if they get to be independent then they will become superior than me, I don't care about that. I fear society, I fear that they will lose the culture completely when they'll start thinking like no one has a right to tell them what to do, the same thing happened in the west, and now we all can see what's the respect of a woman in there. And this is not all, I think women deserve respect, actually every good soul does, I think that it's not their duty to earn for the family, it's onto men actually, that's why I would never want my spouse to work for me, I would want to work myself and provide her everything at her disposal. Most of the people reading this won't be able to understand my point, but actually many men think alike me, that's why they oppose women from earning, it's probably not in a man's nature to express his feelings, specially those related to fear, but they show care even when no one understands it.

The most important cause of why I don't want women to work or earn and why I fear society is because it's full of filth and dirt, I would never want her to be hurt by someone, I know men, I know many wrong things happen outside, no father takes a risk for his child no matter how skillful or strong the child is, it doesn't mean that he doesn't trust his child, it means that a father doesn't trust the circumstances, the world. Women are precious, they need to be dealt in care and with love, there are bad factors in this deluded world, that's the reason why I would never want a woman to work. I wish I could explain myself further on this. You can't argue and settle down with an immature mind, so it's better sometimes to force them to do it while you know of their betterment in it, they may learn it with time, even if they don't, even if they hate you, Allah knows your intentions. I am not sure about other men, but I care for your Akhirah, I feel it as my duty to warn and inform you, of course I don't have an authority over you, thus I can't force you, the final decision is yours. But whatever you intend to do, think before acting!