Men look for weak prey always

Sinful and bad men are always upto finding weak preys, wimpy women, who can be captured and brainwashed easily. They use the tactics of frankness, friendship, compliments, gifts etc to settle the understanding that the guy is pure and cares for the girl. Quran says that our hearts are made weak, it also says that women are weak as compared to men, it's not to degrade their position, it's just the nature of women, it's how they are created, they have weak hearts and thus they become the victim.

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Therefore it is our duty to warn and keep an eye on our women, they can make mistakes by thinking they are right, not everyone has knowledge or maturity in every case or scenario. Don't let anyone manipulate the dignity of your home, they are black gems, hence they should be kept in a precious manner of safety and secrecy, they need to be educated about how to fight against this cruel world, they need to know how men think and what do they wish for, it's a necessity of a woman to know all these things to survive in this modern society that's full of evil.

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These same men who think wrong about women have daughters and mothers in their home, yet they target the sisters and daughters of other people, this society just cares for itself, it's full of apathetic individuals. May Allah save everyone from being a victim of any kind, natural crisis is from God, but injustice and such vulgar things just come from animals who call themselves human. There's so much evil in this world, it destroys many lives everyday. Ya Allah! Show us your mercy.

Parents want their children to live like them

Nowadays, parents are trying to make their children do things like they used to do in that age. But everything has changed, new ways of living have been developed, so it'll be unfair to pressurize someone to live with the old standards.

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Some things, like culture, never change and shouldn't too, but the rest can be given a thought. We as humans don't always do the ordered things well, that's why parents should first listen to what their children say before making any assumption about their rightness and wrongness. Be frank with them, learn what they meant, maybe you are not seeing things by their view, maybe you just know half of the story. Honestly, you can't even make yourself do everything that you intend to do, so give yourself a break from pulling the triggers.

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Frequent enforcement can cause your child's spirituality and confidence to break, stop it before it's too late. Even if your child is on the wrong and you know it, then instead of judging him/her as a sinner take him/her as an immature person who's trying to grow and learn his/her own ways, offer him/her help and guidance, that's all you can do. Give your children a good character, the rest is optional and onto their fate and choice.