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Showing posts with label Feelings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Feelings. Show all posts

Is it not wrong to fall for someone while still being married?

So people nowadays say that it's not wrong if you're married and you generate feelings for someone other than your spouse. They say it's natural and everyone does that. So lame!

Yes it's the nature of a human to get attracted towards the opposite gender, but like I said before in one of my posts; we are always tested by being asked to act against our nature. When you're married, you must be devoted to your spouse. Someone's action or personality may melt your heart and make you think about him/her in an indecent manner, but let Iblees/Shetaan not win. Brother or sister zone the person, say Tauba and recite Tauz, it's Iblees who wants you to think about someone else while you're married already.

Nikkah is a halal seal of love, it's a contract between two persons. When you're intentionally loving someone from inside, then it's same as cheating on your spouse. It's not just sinful but also immoral for any gender to do that. There's no term like modern or moderate Islam, Islam always stays the same. Any real person will accept the fact that making crushes is totally inappropriate. May Allah guide us all and help us think positively. Ameen. Mend your hearts before it's too late.

To say the unsaid, by Ahmed Mac

I have to say a lot of things but I can't put everything in words, my heart speaks more than my tongue, I want to do better than all, I want to do the impossible, but there are infinite barriers in my way, the world isn't a place to enjoy or live in peace, life is full of worries. I don't know how can I say what I mean to say, people are suffering and I'm just living my life, I can't actually do anything for them.

I feel some of their pain, I wish I could take their all pain away, I wish I could stop the injustice of all kinds, I wish I could have the power to stop every bad thing from happening, inhumanity is on its peak. Every human is a brother/sister to the other human, everyone should live in harmony. I don't know if I can convey this message to the world, I don't know if I'll achieve what I want. Preaching people is some other thing, in it it's upto them to pay heed or stay the same, but fighting injustice is something else, in it good people who don't hurt others get violated in inhumane ways, even the thinking of it breaks my heart, such pain exists too. Tauba Astagfar-Astagfirullah!

I wish I could make bad people and barbaric actions an example by punishing them in a terrible way that the whole would observe till the end of this world. There's always someone being hurt, why does no one feel their pain? They're your brothers and sisters, they're humans of your kind, don't you feel the need to do something? Your army is on your payroll, your country runs on your tax money, you still think that you can't do anything? You can! You only just don't want to leave your comfort zone, you are not a human. Are you? You're afraid of taking a step, you want to follow and don't want to be followed, and when there's no one good to follow you can't stand up for the right!

I don't think that it's needed to state the verses of Quran where Allah asked the believers to fight against the unjust things and stand for the people who are crying for help day and night. You don't yet know the pain. Financial, emotional and physical losses are just nothing as compared to rape, physical violence and murder. You can't feel the pain, you're not a victim, you don't know how they feel. If I could have just one wish come true, I would wish for justice for all mankind. I wish I could do something for the poor sisters who had to go through such moments. I actually hate this world, if I could give my life so that they may not suffer then I would certainly do that. I'm getting infinite reasons of not wishing for a daughter and wife, the world is so cruel, I don't have much strength and power to fight the evil, I'm just one alone person who wish to see others in joy and live in peace.

I believe in justice on the day of resurrection (Akhrat) by Allah. But I can't stand still and say nothing about what evil is being done to others, it's not what my religion allow me to do, my religion is a light of humanity. People are sleeping, blinded by luxuries, fooled by society. The feeling that I can't do anything about it makes me feel helpless, it kills me from inside every second of my life, it's humanity. If you have been a victim then my brother/sister I want to let you know that I'd do anything for you if I could or would be there, I would break every national law and wouldn't hesitate to kill the oppressors with my own bare hands no matter the worldly consequences, I don't care about democracy or leadership, if I get the chance for doing the right, I won't care for anything but the truth. A person once told me that you can't turn the button of "humanity" off, she was right on that, I had switched off the button for about two months, but now it's restarted. May Allah save everyone, ameen.