Why do I have sexual desires at this age? How to control my lust?

To have s*xual desires at this age is normal, you may already be proned to excessive interaction with social media and movies which trigger you more into it, you may want to fall in a relationship or watch immoral content online to calm yourself. But the best ones are those who control this sensation and overcome it with patience. Every age has different problems and tests, there will be almost no day without any kind of trouble or test in it, so do not let Iblees win, don't make hasty decisions, ask Allah for help.

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Don't fall for haram things, it's not the cure, it's a harmful painkiller, it will destroy you badly from inside, don't let a temporary need or feeling ruin your entire life completely, it's better to stop now than repent later. If you can marry, then it's the best thing you can do to help yourself. Try fasting, because Quran says that fasting helps overwhelm this feeling. Don't let it go out of control, because once it's out then you won't be able to get the control back in your hands. Good luck! Salam and Peace ❤

Parents want their children to live like them

Nowadays, parents are trying to make their children do things like they used to do in that age. But everything has changed, new ways of living have been developed, so it'll be unfair to pressurize someone to live with the old standards.

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Some things, like culture, never change and shouldn't too, but the rest can be given a thought. We as humans don't always do the ordered things well, that's why parents should first listen to what their children say before making any assumption about their rightness and wrongness. Be frank with them, learn what they meant, maybe you are not seeing things by their view, maybe you just know half of the story. Honestly, you can't even make yourself do everything that you intend to do, so give yourself a break from pulling the triggers.

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Frequent enforcement can cause your child's spirituality and confidence to break, stop it before it's too late. Even if your child is on the wrong and you know it, then instead of judging him/her as a sinner take him/her as an immature person who's trying to grow and learn his/her own ways, offer him/her help and guidance, that's all you can do. Give your children a good character, the rest is optional and onto their fate and choice.