It's our nature as a human that we get tired from everything after some time. When we want something, we crave for it. But after getting it, we forget it's value and our craze to gain it, unless it's lost again. The same thing happens with marriages these days. Husband and wife start hating or disliking each other after a while, the duration can be years or months. When you see the same person everyday, the spiritual energy of that person for you is lost. But when you meet a person after a long time, you'll feel the spirituality. It's our nature. There can be many reasons behind couple fights, but mostly this is the one.
They both actually don't understand that why they fight. There are solutions to this, like go and spend some time alone, or ask your wife to do complete PARDA (cover) in public. People will think of it as a false theory, but it's more effective than anything else. If a woman covers herself, nobody can see her, even her husband. She'll become something noble for her husband. This nature of humans is applied in a tradition of marriage which I won't tell. Obviously people don't understand those traditions, but some wise old fellows must have thought about them and hence added.
To the couples, if your spouse stays more angry, try applying this technique. Insha-Allah your marriage will continue till the end of your life. It's your duty to make efforts for your marriage to work and progress. Do not give up on each other. No one is perfect, learn to compromise on your ego and forgive small mistakes of others. Relationships continue only with compromises. You shouldn't expect perfection in every scenario of life. Getting attracted towards someone else is due to the same reason, they are not always with you, hence their spirituality is high for you.
They both actually don't understand that why they fight. There are solutions to this, like go and spend some time alone, or ask your wife to do complete PARDA (cover) in public. People will think of it as a false theory, but it's more effective than anything else. If a woman covers herself, nobody can see her, even her husband. She'll become something noble for her husband. This nature of humans is applied in a tradition of marriage which I won't tell. Obviously people don't understand those traditions, but some wise old fellows must have thought about them and hence added.
To the couples, if your spouse stays more angry, try applying this technique. Insha-Allah your marriage will continue till the end of your life. It's your duty to make efforts for your marriage to work and progress. Do not give up on each other. No one is perfect, learn to compromise on your ego and forgive small mistakes of others. Relationships continue only with compromises. You shouldn't expect perfection in every scenario of life. Getting attracted towards someone else is due to the same reason, they are not always with you, hence their spirituality is high for you.
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