What should be the identity of a Muslim woman?

She should hide herself from strangers (Na Mehrams) so that when she will grow up then none of the people will be able to recognize her because they never got to see her face. The more secret you are, the more precious you will be. If you have been unwise at time then it's better to repent now than never, God can forgive, He waits for you to come to him, lose your ego and run towards Him, because He cares for you. Being religious is not a crime, it's a blessing 😉